Annette Nay, PhD
Have you ever felt that your children are out of control? Do you feel out of control and don’t know what to do? Sometimes it is so hard to get children to be decent to other family members, do their homework, and/or help around the house. In some cases your youths may have taken over and do as they please. My free article, Taking Control of Your Family, will explain what you can do if you are a couple, but the same principles apply if you are single with children. If you follow the instructions in this article and do them consistently, you will have control of your family and you will know what to do when they break the rules. Click the button below to claim your free copy of Taking Control of Your Family.
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This eBook expands upon the free article: Taking Control of Your Family. It explains how to make a positive change in the marital relationship to effect a strong parental front. It explains what can happen when you let little slights creep into your marriage. Being aware of these things helps you to stop them before they take a hold and destroy your marriage and the spouse you love. It also includes martial skills like active listening so you hear and understand the true meaning behind what is being said by your spouse. Most fights are because of misunderstanding.
The Proper Choice of Consequences
Choosing the appropriate consequences is discussed. Consequences are chosen because they are punitive to the child and will motivate him/her to better behavior. Wouldn’t be wonderful to be able to know what consequences will work for each age and each child? With the information presented in this eBook, there is no more guessing.
Have you ever wondered if you should use food as a reinforcer for good behavior? The reasons for and against using food as a reinforcer is discussed.
How to Use Different Parenting Techniques
Various techniques such as Time-Out are discussed in detail. For example:
All of these questions are discussed, along with the answers and the reasons for those answers. You will know why you need to take a certain action with your child. With type of information you will feel more at ease in your parenting. This will enable you to be more confident and know what needs to be done as each issue arises.
Having a confident parenting style is not only important for your well-being, but also for your children; as you are modeling proper parenting for them. You are providing good boundaries for them to exist within that will keep them safe and help them learn the skills needed to deal with life during the time they are with you and to be able to set proper boundaries as adults for themselves and their children. In essence, you are parenting generations beyond yourself. You owe it to yourself and them to get the best parenting skills available.
Consequences that bring about Change
This eBook contains parenting tips that will help you to know the best ways to change bad behaviors. Some of these are:
How Child's Self Esteem is Developed
Good Sibling Relationships
Other issues that cause problems in a family are lying and fighting and/or violence between siblings and you. This eBook suggests a way to stop the lying. Violence should never be tolerated. What to do about violence in your home is also addressed.
Helping the Children Know Their Resources
When children have a problem, no matter the age, it is important that they know their own personal resources and skills they can rely on. How to teach life skills is discussed along with other resources your children can use. These skills will be needed not only in daily life but also in a crisis or when they have tough decisions they must make.
As your children’s coach, it is important that you help them firmly establish their resources, role-play situations that may or are currently giving them problems. These role-plays can have alternate good endings so that they can have an arsenal of varied situations to choose from in decided which scenario will fit the situation at the time. This eBook tells you how to do this. It is firmly believed that youths commit suicide because they run out of their skills set and are unable to deal with the situations they find themselves in. Finding these situations unmanageable and not knowing alternative resources to use other then themselves, the pressure becomes unbearable and .they commit suicide.
How to Carryout Consequences
How to administer consequences for bad behavior, without anger and yelling takes finesse. This eBook tells you how to accomplish this without blowing your top or allowing your youths to push your buttons which allows them to control the situation.
How to Make Good Decisions
Parents do not have all the answers. However, there is another source that does. This eBook tells you where and how to get answers when you need to know the truth.
Other aspects of this eBook will help you with:
Other Articles Included in the Appendix
These articles are included to help you in your parenting.
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