How to Achieve Weight Loss
Annette Nay, MS

Copyright © 2004


I want to learn more about weight loss.  I have been over weight my ENTIRE life and I'm so sick of it.  Yet I'm just under a BMI of 40 therefore I don't qualify for the gastric bypass surgery.  It's so depressing.  For the past year, I have been trying to gain a few more pounds in order to qualify for the surgery, but for some reason I'm unsuccessful.  I either want to loose about 85 lbs, or gain 15 more.  What do I do?  I'm at a BMI of 39 and stuck.  Please help.

Sincerely,
Stuck

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Dear Stuck,

If you haven’t read these articles on weight-loss, I highly suggest you do as they all play an important part in weight-loss.  Just click on the title below, to see the article.

Thyroid Malfunction - A Reasons for Weight-Gain

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Balancing Your Blood Sugar and Loosing Weight

How Carbohydrates, Fats, Proteins, & Hormones Work to Cause Weight-Loss or Weight-Gain

My Low-Fat - No Processed Sugar Recipes

Converting Recipes for Weight-Loss

Are You Addicted to Food?

More Than You Ever Wanted to Know, But Need to Know about Food Addiction

Recovering From Food Addiction

Processed Sugar Can Cause Depression & Addiction

Why Can Two People Eat the Same Food Yet One Gets Fat and the Other stays Thin?

Processed Sugar Can Cause Depression

Understanding the Psychological Aspects of Weight-Loss

Understanding the Emotional & Social Aspects of Weight-Loss

Understanding the Physiological Aspects of Weight-Loss

A Weighty Problem - Helping a Spouse Loose Weight

Other Reasons for Weight-Gain

Get Enough Calcium and Protein in Your Diet or Else...

Food Secrets

Weight-Loss Tips

 

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Please try to loose the weight instead of going into surgery.  I have lost a dear friend to this type of surgery, as well have many others.  It is dangerous and does not eliminate the problem.  I know personally of the struggles you have had.  I have lost 140 pounds; the equivalent of two of me.  It took about a year and a lot of determination. 

 

I learned the following important points: 

  1. I thought food was my friend.  It is not!  I used food to cover up all these problems, but food can only cover up the problems momentarily.  It does not solve these problems.  Meanwhile, it is creating worse problems. When you eat starches they turn to sugar.  Sugar goes straight into the blood and causes euphoria or a up in mood.  This is only temporary, as it passes away quickly.  Meanwhile the body sends a massive doses of insulin into the bloodstream to bring the body back to its normal state.  Insulin lasts 2 to 3 times longer than the sugar does, in the blood.  It is a depressant, which alone, will cause you to feel sad and lethargic (tired).  When most people feel this way they eat foods with starch or sugar, which gives them another upswing in mood and energy.
  2. Never overeat! If you are not sure if you are still hungry, then take two more bites and quit. Give yourself permission to throw out the leftovers or put them away for later.
  3. If you still feel hungry even though you just ate or the average 4 hours it takes for digestion to occur, hasn't transpired, then:
  4. Exercise is not needed for weight-loss, although it accomplished additional weight-loss by causing the body to burn fats faster, which gives you more energy. It also gives you a healthier, long-lasting body by exercising muscles, especially that of the heart. Exercise is suggested. To determine the best exercise for you, see your doctor.
  1. Also use resistive exercises, such as weight training or isometrics. These build muscle and bone mass to support the muscle. Muscle is needed to lose weight because it is in the muscle that fat is burned. The more muscle you have the more fat you can burn.
  2. The brain is an energy hog and will help use up the sugar you just ate from fruit or vegetables, even if it is just before you go to bed. This because the brain is still working for about an hour after you sleep replaying over and over again in your subconscious mind the last thoughts you had before going to sleep. The subconscious mind is the repository of the essence of who you think you are. This is also where bad thoughts or self-doubts sit in wait to trip you up. If you want the energy to be spent productively, you could tell yourself: you like you, or that you can do make this program work by_____ , or anything you would like to change in your subconscious. See: Reprogramming Subconscious Negative Thoughts
  3. Saturated fats such as butter and meat may be used sparingly, as a condiment to add taste.
  4. Do not eat foods with empty calories or no nutritive value.
  5. Do not eat high fat foods. When fat is taken out of a recipe it removes taste. To add taste more sugar is added. Unused sugar is turned into fat. Processed sugar signals the body to make fat.
  6. Continuous, large quantities of processed sugar and saturated fats are harmful to the body and change the chemical balance of the thyroid and minimizes or stops the body from making serotonin which results in depression. If these imbalances continue for long periods of time the body may never recover its natural chemical balance.
  7. Eating healthful food, promotes a natural chemical balance. Excessive processed sugar contain chemicals that produce a rise in mood. This was the job of the endorphins. Over time, when the body sees that there is excessive sugar continually, it tapers off or even stops the production of endorphins so that mood is stabilized somewhere near normal. The heavy consumption of process sugar needs to stop. Given time, and good nutrition the body may be able to jump-start the sites where theses natural chemicals are made.
  8. Even if the body cannot get these chemical sites into restart, there is still medical hope and hope through prayer. With the use of medicines or even if the body manufactures its own chemicals, it takes one to two months to see a change. From the time that the intake of sugar is halted until the time that the chemical site are up to full capacity, the individual will experience depression. If the natural sites have restarted making natural chemicals, taking an antidepressant will shut down the natural sites again. Consult the Lord as to what you should do!  See:  How to Make Good Decisions  It could also be entitled:  How to Get Answers from God.
  9. Antidepressants take three to four weeks before their effects are felt, so it is a good idea to allow the body to try to do it naturally. Things that stimulate the sites naturally into make endorphins is exercise, singing, and laughter. Fresh fruit can also give the body natural sugar to lift mood slightly.
  10. Since the body is content in eating healthy, continuous weight-loss hinges on how an individual perceives the change in eating habits. Yearning for bad, old eating habits is what causes individuals to fail. Individuals should focus on what they can have and how to spice it up or vary it, instead of dwelling on what they cannot have.
  11. Dealing with social events can be a problem. Social eating is a major part of many cultures. Healthful foods are seldom included as part of social gatherings, although change is slowly occurring as people become more health conscious. If your circles of friends are not into vegetable trays, salads, or fresh fruit then suggest it for the next social gathering. You will not only be helping yourself, but them. When I know that social eating will be occurring at an event, I bring my own food or a tray of my favorites. That way I will not be deprived from eating or being social.
  12. The thyroid controls the feelings of hunger and satiation. One of the problems of weight-gain is not knowing if your are hungry or not. If you have eaten healthfully the thyroid should signal that you are full or satiated. A normal meal containing sufficient protein will usually take four hours to be digested before hunger occurs. If the body signals that you are hungry within the four hours, drink of water and pray for help. Eating lunch at noon and dinner at 4 PM will work out just right. Hunger should occur about 8 P.M. At this time fruit or vegetables can be eaten about every hour as needed.
  13. When sugar is needed for recipes such as bread making use sprouted wheat, honey, fructose, or a combination of them. Fructose can be purchased in health food stores or in stores with health food sections. Note that the heavy insinuating taste of honey is not always wanted in a recipe.
  14. When substituting sprouted wheat for sugar use a 2 to 1 ratio. For honey use a 1 to 1 ratio.
  15. Use salt or salt substitutes to bring out the sweetness in a food. Then add sweetener.
  16. Use seasonings, without sugar, to spice up wheat, brown rice, and salads. Excellent taste bud tantalizers are: lemon pepper, chili powder, basil, oregano, onions, garlic, fresh tomatoes, spaghetti sauce, liquid smoke, thyme, and curry. * Check the spaghetti sauce for processed sugar.
  17. Cook up large batches of wheat and brown rice in advance, zip-lock in freezer bags, and freeze so you have them readily available.
  18. Use frozen or canned vegetables when fresh ones are not available.
  19. A half cup of raw, uncooked nuts per day gives the body the calcium it needs. Watch the amount of fat in the kind of nut you are eating. Almonds have less fat than most nuts.
  20. Avocados and olives contain high levels of fat. Do not include these in your diet unless it is being counted as the 2 tablespoons of fat during your lunch or dinner.
  21. Many peanut butter has a lot of sugar added. Look for all natural peanut butter. Many of the Costco's or Sam's carry Adam's Peanut Butter. If not ask them to do so.
  22. Use romaine lettuce, spinach, or other leaf lettuce instead of Iceberg head lettuce. Head lettuce has no vitamins; therefore it is good for nothing but bulk and has to be delivered to the back door. You want the elimination time spent on fat removal not waste lettuce.
  23. Read labels. Check the ingredients to see if processed sugar has been added in everything you eat. Check different brands. There was a great difference in calories, fat- both saturated and unsaturated, and process sugar in products, especially milk products. Reread labels periodically to check the ingredients, sometimes they change.
  24. There are many reasons why a person retains weight.  Some of these are:

 

Suggestions

  1. Instead of eating to feel better, because of loss, boredom, worry, procrastination, or sadness, use good coping tools. See:  Coping Skills
  2. Get the support and knowledge you need.  Join Overeaters Anonymous (OA).  It is free.  Look in your phone book for the meeting nearest you.  See:  Overeaters Anonymous
  3. Last, but most importantly, use God as your weight-loss trainer. Don't do this program without Him! Set goals with Him in the morning, Talk to Him about good food ideas for lunch and dinner during the day. At night evaluate how the day went and what can be done to make things better for the next day as needed.

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Here are other articles that may also be of benefit!

28 Small Changes That Will Make a Big Difference

By Melissa Sperl for WeightWatchers.com

When you were little and first learned to tie your shoes, someone taught you how to do it by breaking it down into smaller steps. First tie a knot. Then make the loops. Now tie the bow.

Splitting any task up into stages helps it seem more manageable, and gets you to goal quicker. The same goes for weight loss.

As you accomplish each "mini-goal," you'll feel like a winner. That sense of accomplishment is great motivation for meeting more mini-goals, and more, until suddenly you're at the weight you've always wanted.

"Making small changes one at a time is a great strategy," agrees Howard Rankin, Ph. D., a South Carolina psychologist. "It's not overwhelming, and it results in a slower, more steady weight loss."

Remember: When it comes to weight loss, slow and steady wins the race. It's the pace that will help you get to your goal, then stay there.

 

 

Do Sweat the Small Stuff
A bunch of small changes add up to big results. Maybe cutting the cream out of your coffee seems like a small feat to you. But once you've got that down you can add another small feat, then another.

"Baby steps are the way to go," said one WeightWatchers.com user. "Especially when you're just starting the plan. There seem to be so many things to do, it's overwhelming. Little things become habits, and eventually the whole process doesn't seem so overwhelming."

We asked people like you — on the WeightWatchers.com Message Boards and in Meetings rooms — what small steps they've taken in order to see their way toward their weight goals. This is what they said ...

... About Small Eating Changes

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10 Ways to Change Your Body Without Surgery

By Mike Bruno for WeightWatchers.com

It's no secret that people are willing to go to amazing lengths all in the name of "looking good." Some folks spend thousands and willingly expose themselves to invasive surgery (liposuction) and botulism (Botox) just so they can be happier with the person they see in the mirror every morning.

Fortunately, you don't have to run to a plastic surgeon wielding your credit card just to obtain a flatter tummy, a tighter butt or a brighter smile. Here are 10 simple, inexpensive and relatively painless ways you can improve your body without going under a knife.

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25 Little Tips for Big Weight Loss

By Karen Hammonds for WeightWatchers.com

Eating Tips

Fitness Tips

 

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Destined to be fat?

Nine tips for handling midlife weight woes.

By Evelyn Tribole, R.D., from Lifetimetv.com

We women are like fine wines: We just get better with age. Save for one little detail: our weight -- which seems fated to skyrocket once we hit that developmental milestone, menopause. According to the North American Association for the Study of Obesity, obesity in women has nearly doubled in the past two decades; it is a problem that researchers say is particularly acute during perimenopause, the three- to 10-year period preceding menopause. The Women's Healthy Lifestyle Project, a five-year study of 585 perimenopausal women funded by the National Institutes of Health, found that women who don't change their lifestyles gain an average of 5.2 pounds during that period.

But before you throw in the towel and submit to age-related weight gain, consider this: Understanding the new set of rules governing your body's changes can provide you with concrete ways to manage your weight. Here's what is happening: As you age, your body stops ovulating and produces less and less estrogen. Meanwhile, the hormone testosterone (no, it's not just in men) remains at the same level. This increased testosterone-to-estrogen ratio triggers the expansion of our waistlines, since our fat distribution changes to be more like a man's, shifting from our hips and buttocks to our waists. (One bright note: Once this transition is completed, half of all women find that their thighs have actually decreased in size!)

As your waistline fills out, some weight gain is inevitable, although the amount can range from two to 20 pounds. However, another key finding of the Women's Healthy Lifestyle Project was that women who engage in physical activity and adhere to a low-fat, reduced-calorie diet are very likely to either maintain their weight or lose weight. The bottom line: Your hormones don't have to have the last word -- you can keep off the weight. Here are nine tactics for staying fit during perimenopause:

1. Pump some iron. Lean body mass, which acts as a calorie-burning machine, naturally decreases as you age. Lifting weights two to three times a week can help you maintain your muscle mass and keep your metabolism revved.

2. Exercise your options. Your metabolism slows down 10% to 15% during midlife, mainly due to decreased muscle mass. Aerobic, cardiovascular exercise is crucial to minimizing the weight gain and fat storage that would naturally result from this downshift. Walk, jog, bike, swim or do an aerobics tape for at least one hour a day most days of the week.

3. Eat right. Dieting -- defined as traditional low-calorie plans, so-called fat-burning pills and fad diets, including Atkins -- can actually worsen midlife weight gain. That's because dieting increases the level of enzymes that tell your body to store fat. To effectively manage your weight through food, craft a balanced diet of nutrient-rich foods and eat only when you are hungry.

4. Cut quantities. As we age, our bodies need fewer calories. If you downsize the amount you eat at each meal, but increase the number of meals you have each day, you'll find that you have more energy and a more balanced mood. Aim to consume five or six small meals each day, eating no more than three fistfuls of food each time.

5. Seek satisfaction. With less estrogen in your body, it's easier to overeat, since estrogen helps trigger the feeling of being full. However, eating high-satiety (aka filling) foods, including those high in protein (such as chicken, turkey, eggs, fish, beans, tofu, nuts) and those high in fiber (such as whole-grain cereals, dried beans, whole-grain crackers, fruits, vegetables), help you feel satisfied and stop you from overeating.

6. Love lunch. It's a somewhat controversial concept, but some experts recommend eating your biggest meal at lunch rather than dinner to control weight gain.

7. Limit alcohol. Since alcohol has been shown to increase abdominal weight gain, do not have more than one drink per day.

8. Relax! Periods of stress cause increased storage of fat around the abdomen -- and years of stress can actually disrupt your fat cells' ability to make estrogen, causing them to expand in an effort to compensate. The best thing you can do is not get too worked up about impending weight gain (or anything else!) and find ways to release stress -- through exercise, meditation, journal-writing, therapy or conversations with friends.

9. Look on the bright side! There is some good news: Once you've completed the "change of life," your fat cells start to shrink and produce less fat. While you will never have the metabolism you had when you were 20, your weight will get somewhat easier to manage after perimenopause.

Annette Nay, MS

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