Make sure that your body is not intrusive to
your mate.
Male Check List for Bodily Unobtrusiveness
Shower daily, and again before being intimate with your spouse. Be sure to
clean thoroughly clean the following:
Hair
Arm Pits
Private Area - front, back, and connecting area
Feet
Other problem areas that are turn-offs:
Shave your face or clean and trim beard and/or mustache - Stubble hurts
and seldom is a help closeness. No one likes to see food in your facial hair
nor would your mate like to share it with you if you have an intimate
moment.
Teeth and Mouth - Be sure to brush the inside of the cheeks under and on
top of the tongue, the roof of the mouth and floss and rinse the teeth.
The Stomach - If your breath still stinks and your teeth are not rotting,
your stomach is the culprit. Parsley, spearmint oil capsules, anti-acid
tablets, and other remedies are available on the market. Always make sure
that your stomach is fresh smelling instead of offensive.
Natural Body Odor - The natural smell of your body may be appealing to
you, but you are not trying to please your own senses, but your mates. The
use of cologne and deodorant with an antiperspirant is suggested. Use these
in prominent odorous areas. Deodorant for the arm pits and cologne for the
private area and any other area that your mate might be near while being
intimate. Do not over due the cologne; a little goes a long way.
If your teeth are rotten, get them fixed.
Cologne and Deodorant - Too much, clashing odor from the two, or the wrong
kind of cologne and/or deodorant according to your mate, is a definite turn
off. It can cause your mate to have a true head ache and/or nausea.
Female Check List for Bodily Unobtrusiveness
Shower just before being intimate with your spouse and thoroughly clean the
following:
Hair
Arm Pits
Private Area - front, back, and connecting area
Feet
Other problem areas that are turn-offs:
Shave your legs and underarm - Stubble hurts and seldom is a helps to
improve intimacy. Men usually do not like their women to have hairy or
stubble armpits.
Teeth and Mouth - Be sure to brush the inside of the cheeks under and on
top of the tongue, the roof of the mouth and floss and rinse the teeth.
The Stomach - If your breath still stinks and your teeth are not rotting,
your stomach is the culprit. Parsley, spearmint oil capsules, anti-acid
tablets, and other remedies are available on the market. Always make sure
that your stomach is fresh smelling instead of offensive.
Natural Body Odor - The natural smell of your body may be appealing to
you, but you are not trying to please your own senses, but your mates. The
use of cologne and deodorant with an antiperspirant is suggested. Use these
in prominent odorous areas. Deodorant for the arm pits and cologne for the
private area and any other area that your mate might be near while being
intimate. Do not over due the cologne; a little goes a long way.
If your teeth are rotten, get them fixed.
Cologne and Deodorant - Too much, clashing odor from the two, or the wrong
kind of cologne and/or deodorant according to your mate, is a definite turn
off. It can cause your mate to have a true head ache and/or nausea.